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Listen, we totally get it.
There’s nothing more terrifying than date night. Yes, we said it and we’lll say it again.
Date night can be really horrifying for any guy out there.
For example, imagine going on a blind date.
Chances are you have no idea what you’re walking into you, right?
Now imagine, if you could walk into that blind date with confidence, regardless of the outcome. This would totally help you get rid of those date night jitters.
On the other hand, let’s say you’ve been in a long-term relationship and the idea of “date night” resurfaces…insert panic mode here.
No matter if you just started seeing someone or have been in a long-term relationship the idea of date night canbe an intimidating event for any gent.
How to knock date night out of the park
Today we are going to try and conquer “date night.”
We’re gonna be honest with you.
We are going to approach this topic assuming that you want this relationship to continue.
So, if you’re looking to hit it and quit it then this article is not for you. You could just get really really drunk. We don’t judge. Just remember no means no.
Let’s start with your mental state of mind
As some of you know our whole take on things is to “live life by the bold“. What that really means is to live a life with confidence.
When you live life confidently, you approach situations with a positive outlook.
In order to do this, you have to be confident in your own skin.
We’ll be the first to say it.
Men have doubts about themselves just as much at our female counterparts.
Sure, we’re taught to be ultra-masculine, but we have worries too. We care about how we look. We care about our perceived value.
At the end of the day, we want to live our best lives and be the best possible version of ourselves, right?
That’s why it’s important to be comfortable in your own skin. You have to be.
Otherwise, you run the risk of being dependent and needy in your relationship. That’s not fun for anyone.
So, here are three easy things you can do to make sure you’re taking care of yourself and that you are putting yourself first before meeting ”bae”.
Bro, you need to make sure you stay in shape.
No one likes a dead couch potato. When you’re exercising and staying fit you are potentially creating a whole new life for yourself.
When you keep physically fit but you’re releasing a critical body chemical than can help add to your happiness.
Who wouldn’t want that?
For some of us, we need a little bit deeper of an understanding of ourselves in order to live our best lives.
We all know a friend or two that might act overly possessive or might have trust issues when it comes to relationships.
Soour question is “why are you dating in the first place?”
You obviously have some internal issues need to work through and that’s totally OK man.
Again, we repeat it’s okay.
In fact, we found this really cool site that focuses on managing things like anxiety and depression that’s specifically for guys. It’s called Heads Up Guys and you can check it out here.
We just want to make sure you get the help you need and if that involves talking with therapist do it. We’re not ashamed.
They say success comes with a certain amount of focus and dedication. That’s why we suggest elevating your state of mind by meditating.
Meditation does not need to take more than five minutes if you’re just starting out.
If you’re looking for a really good source to begin with you might want to checked out this app called CALM. We bought it a few months back and it’s super easy to use. We used it when things got a bit stressful at the office and needed to take a few minutes to just chill. Check it out here.
The mental clarity and mental stamina you will gain from just spending a few moments a day to see your days’ intention could have a huge impact on your outlook.
Let’s talk appearances
Now that we got all the mental stuff out of the way (bro, we just want to make sure your mental game is on point), we can jump over to the fun stuff.